I am very sorry you felt that way. We've been hosting a lot of AirBnB guest in our house and we never had any bad feedback. I had a discussion with my roommate and it's the first time he complained about AirBnB guests.
You and your boyfriend were doing a lot of noise during the night (3AM in the middle of the week), you even started a washing machine in the middle of the night! Also you smoked weed in the bedroom which is totally forbidden.
To sum up I think you and your boyfriend were disrespectful and did not take into account that people live there and they have to wake up early to work in the morning. Next time you should not take a share house if you want to party.
Once again, you did not respect the rules of the house and I am upset my roommate who work hard has to suffer from your couldn't-care-less attitude. I would highly not recommend you nor your boyfriend.