Hey Dorel , like explained before, all details about us staying in the backyard studio when not traveling are in the listing and If you would have made the effort to read it you would have avoid making a choice that would make you uncomfortable. It's not more then having another neighbor with the advantage of having somebody close by in case our guests might need anything at all. We try to respect our guests and to have as much or little interaction with them as they like.. It seems to me that your feeling of being uncomfortable was because you had the intention of throwing a party and behave differently from what our house rules states. You Instant Booked the property. The house rules state Clearly NO PARTIES or OUTSIDE GUESTS ALLOWED and again you did have a party with outside guests without asking permission, moving furnitures and so on. Also For big groups we have no problem leaving our giant driveway complete free, even though in the listing we explain to leave the right side open, but you only had a car besides during your undisclosed party, so I really do not see the problem. Anyway I see this is your first time renting through Airbnb, at least with this profile, so really we tried to be incredibly nice and politely explain to you our house rules again. Airbnb is not a hotel, it's people's home and you will find any sort of rules and arrangements. if you want to rent a house to throw a party you look for one that allows them. I assure you in the future the feeling of discomfort will always arise when you break the rules.