I stayed here 1 night. I’m not sure what I should write, because there may have been some misunderstanding(s). But anyway, I’ll try to describe in an accurate way: Communication in the weeks beforehand was good. On the date of arrival it was less good, but we managed (in the previous week she had written that she’d let me know when she knows better about her arrival time in Tallinn (she was driving from abroad), but I never heard anything so I assumed it would be around 8-9pm-ish, based on our conversation about the time the festival I was attending would end (8pm) and instructions for where to go after that. After a while I tried to ring her but the call didn’t go through (she later said the reception was bad), and sent an SMS; later she rang me back and said she was on her way, but in the end it was around midnight (or so) when she arrived, and then she had to do some more things before driving home with me).
Anyway, staying 1 night after arriving home very late (somewhere between 1-2am, I think), I wasn’t really able to get to know her so well. I think we both were very tired by this time. Everything seemed friendly and smooth (e.g. communication regarding locking up the flat in the morning), but then she seemed to react with a lot of stress (i.e. seeming to blame me to some extent for stressing her out) when I found an insect on the pillow and wanted to check what it was (as I’m not experienced with identifying them, and felt it was better safe than sorry). I felt I was always polite and gentle, and I hadn’t either made any complaints or impolite tone about her late arrival / lack of communication earlier in the day.
The house in general looked to be clean and functioning.
In the morning she didn’t seem interested in conversation and left without saying bye.